Happy Women's day Sakshi..

saying something . Direct or indirect ? blunt or softened ? And who is the messenger . If your mother says you need a bath then its direct, blunt, but the messenger here is usually someone you expect to be able to make that statement; she's been intimate since birth. If you meet someone you know casually on the bus and they say you need a bath you will be miffed . But you could take it from a complete stranger. Crucially it's the level of intimacy . some estimate of the person's ego strength is important too . some people are very sensitive and what is the intention of the comment ? To hurt or help. Giving feedback with good intentions and in as caring a manner as possible is. But these "rules " are broken all the time in sports comments, celebrity comments, and daily in blogs.
certain self sought situations can be neutral such as your hairdresser , or "make over " programmes on tv .
wildgoose

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most:
saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing, and wishing you had?

HOW WE FALL IN LOVE
Our eyes fall in love when they see to whom for they are born.

Our ears fall in love when they hear to whom for they are born.

Our heart fall in love when it feels near to whom for it is born

And, we only bear their sorrows and happiness because these all things are given to us.

I wonder that these all things are waiting anxiously for one, same person.

THESE LINES WRITTEN BY ME

MY dear, my dear, I know
More than another
What makes your heart beat so;
Not even your own mother
Can know it as I know,
Who broke my heart for her
When the wild thought,
That she denies
And has forgot,
Set all her blood astir
And glittered in her eyes.

Happy Pongal ooo Pongal Sakshi.

hi.

hey tiny one, happy New Year
wildgoose

All it takes is one song to bring back thousand memories. ❤️