Chapter 1: How can I know a man who can break my heart or disappoint me in a marriage relationship or courtship?

Chapter 1: How can I know a man who can break my heart or disappoint me in a marriage relationship or courtship?

 

Heart-break or disappointment in a marriage relationship is very painful because it is an unexpected incident.

 

Many ladies have experienced the so called heart-break or disappointment in their marriage relationships, courtships and love affairs. The victims are always afraid and unsettled to go into another relationship with other men.

 

The signs that you can use to know a man who can break your heart or disappoint you in a marriage relationship

 

• If you have moved with a man for so long and he has not known your family members and he is not making any effort to know or see them, the man can break your heart because any serious man who really wants to marry you will not waste much time in knowing your people during his courtship with you.
• If you discover that your man does not really love you and you are only trying to make him love you by all means, no matter the kind of help you render to him or gifts you present to him or his family members to win his heart towards you, he will still disappoint you at the end. Any man who does not love you despite the fact that you really love him will disappoint you at the end.
• If you are moving with a man who is a pretender lover and you have noticed it, don’t waste time in withdrawing from the relationship because he will disappoint you. Remember that most men can pretend to love you just because of what they want to get or benefit from you. After they have gotten what they want, they will break your heart.
• If you discover that the man who is moving with you is a liar, he tells you lies too much, he hardly tells you the truth. This type of man can break your heart because any man who loves you and is really ready to marry you will always tell you the truth.
• If you discover that your man is his mother’s pet; he is a man who listens to his mothers words and acts according to his mother’s wishes or he is being controlled by his mother, if you discover that his mother doesn’t like you or she is pretending to like you, the man will definitely disappoint you or break your heart. Any man who dances to the tune of his mother will marry a lady that his mother approves for him.
• Always visit your fiance or man in his house, office or shop when he does not expect you and watch his reactions. If he is not happy with your unexpected visits and you find him getting angry with you, it shows that he is not sincere with you. An insincere man in a marriage relationship will disappoint you. A man who really loves you and is ready to marry you will welcome you any moment you visit him and will be happy anytime he sees you.
• If your man has promised to marry you and you discover that he is womanizing, he can break your heart because he can be entrapped by other ladies or he might discover another lady who he can prefer to you; may be because she is richer, more beautiful, has better character or more sexually active than you.
• If your man is a traveler or he intends to travel out of the country and he has not married you legally, you should be very careful because he might forget about you totally by the time he travels out.
• If your man or fiance is the type who is only interested in your money, wealth or possession, all the time he asks you for money for one thing or the other in his favor and does not care much about your own welfare. It may be that the man is more interested in what you have and not you. Be careful if your man behaves this way.
• If the parents of the man who is moving with you       dwell in the village and it happens that your man usually travels to the village to see his parents, you should be very careful because his parents may select a wife for him in the village and he will break your heart. You have already heard of several cases whereby a man will propose or promise a lady marriage in the town or city and ends up marrying another girl in his village.
• If you are having a relationship or courtship with       popular men like actors, musicians, footballers etc. Most of these types of men are not reliable; only a few of them are reliable. They select and change ladies like cloths and most times they don’t only       break ladies’ hearts, they also divorce their real wives to make room for other ladies.
• If you notice that the man who has promised you       that he will marry you tells people or other ladies that you are his sister while he has not married you, this is a clear sign that he is intending to disappoint you or break your heart. Do not foolishly remain with this type of man if you don’t want to cry at the end. Any man who is really serious to marry you cannot tell people that you are his sister.
• When you notice that the man who has promised you that he will marry you has started dodging when he sees you or when you are coming to see him, sometimes he will instruct people to tell you that he is not around while he is around. This is a clear sign that the man is no longer interested in you and he will never again be interested in you. Do not make further attempt to do anything for him but find your way instantly if you don’t want him to embarrass or disgrace you. Any man who is really ready to marry you will never dodge from you whenever you are coming to see him.
• If you notice that the man who told you that he       wants to marry you has started accusing you of being a prostitute, marmaid, spirit, witch, snake etc. Either you heard it from people or directly from his mouth. This is a clear sign that the man no longer wants you but will definitely break your heart.

The signs above are given to you so that when you start noticing them in your man’s attitude, you should become very careful and monitor the way he is going. If you can no longer understand him or you have become totally convinced that he will disappoint you or break your heart, it is better for you to cut the relationship yourself before he breaks your heart. Some men are so heartless to the extent that they will break your heart in a painful way.

Chapter 2: What are the methods that men use in breaking ladies’ hearts?

Chapter 2: What are the methods that men use in breaking ladies’ hearts?

 

There are different methods that heartless men use in carrying out their wicked act and they are going to be listed here:

 

Method 1: The man can arrange and bring his next lady into the house when he expects you. When you come into the house or compound, he will make a sudden introduction asking you to meet       his wife, hugging or kissing her in your presence. You may even find the girl putting on the man’s tee-shirt or tying his towel or wrapper. At this moment, you need nobody to tell you that it is all over because you will be dumbfounded and confused. This type of method is very painful on ladies.

 

Method 2: The man will use his parents as an excuse. He can give you an excuse that his parents don’t want him to marry you and that is all. When you hear this, you need nobody to tell you to find your way.

 

Method 3: The man can just accuse you of something that you didn’t do and he will stick to it. He can tell you that he caught you with another man somewhere or can accuse you of anything that you never did. All efforts that you will make to explain yourself and prove yourself innocent will be in vain as he will still stick to his accusation which he wants to use as an excuse to push you off.

 

Method 4: The man can just decide to condemn a particular character in you. He may tell you that you talk anyhow, you don’t have respect, you are lazy or just any character that suits him to push you off. He will tell you that he cannot marry a lady who possesses that kind of character and he will stick to his condemnation. At this time, you will find your way in tears.

 

Method 5: This can be elopement. A man who wants to disappoint you and go for another girl can elope with that girl to another state or country and       can even get married to her there or get her pregnant. By the time you know what has happened, nobody will tell you to       find your way.

 

Method 6: The man can also use your educational background for an excuse. He can tell you that he cannot marry you because of your poor or low educational background. Any excuse you give to him about going further will be rejected since he really wants to push you off.

 

It is very painful that even the man who you have adored, respected and loved with all your heart for a long time can just turn around one day and use one of these methods to break your heart. I can say that it is very unfair, therefore, you must be careful with men of today.

Chapter 3: How can I know a man who really wants to marry me during a relationship?

Chapter 3: How can I know a man who really wants to marry me during a relationship?

 

It is very clear that some ladies normally get confused during a relationship wondering whether the relationship would end up in marriage or not especially when their men have not told them anything about marriage.

 

The reasons why men approach ladies for relationships

 

1.      Marriage: A man can approach a lady for relationship with the intention of marrying her. 68% of men do this.

 

2.      Sex: A man can go into relationship with a lady in order to have or be having sex with her and dumps her later. 86% of men do this.

 

3.      Duping: A man can also go into relationship with a lady in order to dupe her at the end. 32% of men do this.

 

Any man who is in a relationship with you knows what he actually wants from you but you being a lady cannot know his mind. This topic will now help you to know whether the man who is in a relationship with you really wants to marry you.

 

The signs that you can use to know a man who really wants to marry you during a relationship

 

1. Any man who intends to marry you during a relationship cares about the betterment of your future. He knows that your future is also his that is why he cares about it. In some cases, the man will advise you to go further in your education, learn a trade or he can even register you with his money into one institute or the other for you to be trained and have knowledge that will generate income for you. He can also help you in securing a good job if you are through with your education. Note that a man who does not intend to marry you during a relationship does not care about your future. He is more interested in what he wants to benefit from you. If you discuss your future with him, he will pretend to care.
2. The man tells people boldly during your relationship with him that you are his wife, wife to be or fiancee and he is always happy saying it. He will never tell people that you are his sister, friend, business partner etc.
3. The man does not waste much time in meeting your family members after he is satisfied with your character. He asks you about them and will try to meet and know them so that they will recognize him as a man who wants to marry their daughter or sister.
4. The man does not give you much gap or stays too long without hearing from you or seeing you during your relationship with him. He calls you on phone or visits you regularly to know how you feel or chat with you.
5. The man does not dodge from you when you are coming to visit or see him. He is always happy to welcome you anytime you are coming to see him. This is because he knows that he wants to marry you. A man who is in a relationship with you only for the purpose of sex will start dodging from you when he has gotten what he wants.
6. The man will not also waste time in taking you to his own family members after he is satisfied with your character for them to know you and for you to know them during your relationship with him.

When you start noticing some of these signs in your relationship, congratulations! Happy married life in advance. Make sure that you invite me to your wedding.

 

Chapter 4: What are the qualities in a lady that can attract a man to approach her for real marriage?

Chapter 4: What are the qualities in a lady that can attract a man to approach her for real marriage?

 

Generally, no man can just see a lady and approach her for marriage without a particular quality or qualities in her that attracted the man. These qualities are divided into:

 

1.      Physical quality

2.      Character quality

 

Physical Quality

 

This is the physical appearance of a lady that can attract a man to like and love her. The physical appearance of a lady includes:

 

Height: This is an attribute that can attract men who prefer tall ladies. Nature is responsible for this kind of attribute but some girls can be responsible for their problem of not getting taller. When an under aged girl begins to have sex, she will not grow tall.

Facial Beauty: This can also attract men but you need to be careful if nature has made you beautiful.

Big Buttocks: Some men like the ladies with big buttocks and they can attract men to you especially if they are well-shapped. Nature is responsible for this and you can also achieve them yourself.

Breasts-size: This can also attract men who love bigger or smaller breasts. Many men love attractive breasts and they can attract men to you.

Good voice: This is another good quality that can attract men to you. Nature only is responsible for this quality.

Complexion: Some men can like you because of your complexion. Your complexion cannot be a hindrance to you because men like both fair and dark complexion. If your skin is irritating, it can stand a problem to you. Treat all your skin diseases and remove all irritating marks and burns on your skin.

Pointed nose: Some men like ladies with pointed nose but it is only nature that can bestow this on you and many ladies don’t have this.

Oval shaped face: This is an egg-like shaped face. A lady who has this type of face is naturally beautiful and it can attract men. Many ladies who don’t have oval-shaped face are also very beautiful.

Eyeballs: Some ladies have cat, dark or black eyeballs and they can attract men.

White Teeth: This is another beautiful feature that can attract men. This can be natural and you can also achieve it yourself.

Lips: Some ladies have thick, some have pointed and others have colored or dark lips. They can also attract men to you.

Legs: Most men consider this part before approaching a lady because they don’t usually like ladies with too slim legs. Your legs as a lady must be full and straight.

Long hair: There are some men who look at this part although most men don’t consider it but some romantic men do.

General body shape: This is what makes you a complete lady and it attracts men so fast.

 

We have listed all the physical qualities in ladies that can attract men to approach them for marriage or love relationship.

Among all these physical qualities, you must have the ones given to you by nature. There is no lady who can be denied of all the physical qualities that we have listed above. If you are careless, you may damage the ones given to you. There are some of them that you can achieve yourself if you don’t inherit them from nature and there are some that you cannot achieve. Most men are being attracted by your physical qualities first before they start considering your character qualities while some men look straight to your character qualities.

 

Character Quality

 

This is the general behavior of a lady that can easily attract a man to marry her. This one is more important than physical quality because it is the quality that most men consider. Some men have no business with physical attributes of a lady but they look out for her character. Nature is not responsible for character quality; it depends on the way you build yourself. Make sure that you possess some of the character qualities as we are going to list them out.

 

1.      Being Respectful: This enhances men’s urge to approach you for marriage. If you are found respectful, men will so much like you.

2.      Being Hardworking: All men and families like a lady who is hardworking. A lazy lady has limited chance of getting married. Make sure that you have something that you are doing in life. It is either you are working, furthering your education, learning a trade or running a business. Don’t just sit down there and expect a man to come and marry you. Men of these days look at your profession, job, business, educational level, ambition and your focus in future before they can develop interest in marrying you. No man wants to marry an idle wife again this time although some few ladies have been lucky to get husbands who are training them in schools and some husbands normally set up business for their wives. Supposing you don’t get that type of husband, What will you do? Engaging yourself in something before a man marries you is better for you because it gives you more respect when the man is approaching you for marriage.

3.      Being Jovial: Men highly appreciate jovial ladies a       lot. Being jovial can increase your chances of getting married easily.

4.      Being Cheerful: Cheerfulness is a key to quick marriage. This is the ability of a lady to bear happy or       smiling face every time she is communicating with       people. One can easily figure out when the lady is not happy.

5.      The Ability to Greet people: Greeting people very well makes you a responsible lady because people will start judging your character from here.

6.      Being Truthful: Once you have been discovered as       a truthful lady, you will be taken for a lady who has good character and men will like you.

7.      Being Helpful: Try to be rendering help to people. The more you render help to people especially the more you will be rated as a responsible lady. Not necessarily it must be financial help.

8.      Being Observant: Any responsible lady should be very observant. If men notice that you are an observant lady, they will be rushing to have you as a wife while parents will want to recommend you for their sons.

9.      Being humble: All men will want to marry any girl or lady who is humble.

10. The Ability to cook well: This is very important in the life of a lady. All men will like to       marry a lady who can cook well. Train yourself in this       area very well. If you are having a relationship with a man who is not from your tribe, try to learn how to prepare his local or traditional meals if you want to       marry him. Men are always happy if they discover that their wives know how to cook well.

11. Dressing Well: A lady who dresses well looks very attractive to men. Many ladies have easily gotten married through this act. Do not put on too expensive dresses if you are not married so that men will not see you as a materialistic lady. Put on simple dresses that will fit you. Remember that indecent dressing irritates responsible men and they will consider you to be an irresponsible girl or lady. So be careful with the way you dress. If you dress to expose your body parts, you will see men who will come to you. The men who will come to you are only interested in the body parts that you are exposing but they are not interested in you. When they reach to your body by any means, they will find       their ways. Always wear dresses that can bring out your body shape and not dresses that will expose the sexual parts of your body. You must look attractive to men before they can approach you for marriage. As long as your       dresses don’t expose your sexual body parts, you are okay and make sure that your shape is always seen by men.

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Verlag: BookRix GmbH & Co. KG

Tag der Veröffentlichung: 22.05.2020
ISBN: 978-3-7487-4272-2

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