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Wedding Planning Book: Duties, Checklists, Reception & Photography

A practical step by step guide on how you can plan a successful white wedding

Plan with any budget

Suitable for any country

Suitable for any church

WORLDWIDE WEDDING PLANNING GUIDE

Desmond Ihenze

No part of this publication may be reproduced, retrieved by any means either by photocopy, electronic or otherwise without written consent from the publisher or author.

DESMOND IHENZE

FIRST PUBLISHED IN MAY 2020

Published in USA by

CREATESPACE PUBLISHERS

Typeset in Nigeria by

TK COMPUTERS

5, Oyenuga Street, Akoka, Yaba, Lagos State, Nigeria

For marketing and distribution enquiry, email

desmondihenze@yahoo.com

Phone number

+234 8038094830

DEDICATION

Wedding comes once in a lifetime.

This book is dedicated to all new couples who are currently planning their weddings all over the world. I wish them happy wedding planning.

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

I will first of all thank Almighty God who has been my source of inspiration and ideas. I will also thank all those who have provided useful materials that helped to make this manual a successful self guide.

Chapter 1: Wedding Planning Step by step

Step 1: Before you start planning for wedding

• Make sure that you have studied your partner’s character very well and you have become satisfied that he or she would make you happy in your marriage. It will not be proper for you to wed and divorce in future.

• Make sure that your parents/family members and your partner’s parents/family members have all agreed that both of you can become husband and wife. There are always problems in any marriage that parents and family members don’t consent to.

• Make sure that both of you have undergone blood tests to know your blood groups and genotypes and the results proved that both of you can get married without any problem in your marriage.

Step 2: Do you want to go for traditional or Court wedding also?

Choose whether you will like to include court wedding or traditional wedding or both depending on the marriage tradition of the bride and your choice.
If you would like to go for both court and traditional wedding, you can fix the dates on the same day to cut down costs.
Choose whether you would like to organize a bachelor's eve party for your white wedding. If you wish to organize this, remember that the date should be fixed on the night before your wedding day.

Step 3: Start discussing your white wedding ceremony with people

Confirm your wedding date with your life partner and fix the date.
Start discussing your wedding with your partner especially how you want it to be done.
Discuss it with your own parents and your partner’s parents.
Select the important personalities you want to invite such as your sponsors, chief hosts, father of the day, mother of the day, RSVP etc.
Discuss your wedding with your priest, pastor or an officiator.
Discuss it with your close friends and your relations.
Set a budget for your wedding and decide how expenses will be shared. You can discuss this with your partner and sponsors.
Pick a special adviser or a wedding specialist if you like and discuss your wedding with him or her.
Decide and arrange for where you and your partner will live after the wedding.

Step 4: Settlement of conflicts

Publish your names in the marriage lists in your church.
Include your names under the bans of marriage.
If you or your partner offended or disappointed anybody, make sure that you have reconciled with the person before your wedding. Offended or disappointed people can hinder, obstruct or cause confusion on your wedding day.

Step 5: Start getting ready for the wedding day

Get your blood tests results ready if it is needed.
Prepare other medical examinations that may be needed ready. Some churches ask for HIV tests results.
Get your birth certificates ready.
Get your baptism cards / certificates ready.
Get other documents or certificates that the priest/pastor/officiator may require ready.

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