INTRODUCTION
Negativity will bring unhappiness in your life. Be positive think positive and be happy. The feeling of negative unhappiness or sadness is within us. It is said that negative unhappiness is purely our own matter. Though it has got something to do with our external circumstances. But there are certainly some positive factors within us that keep us happy and there is something negative within us also which keep us unhappy. Happy living through positive and good thoughts, is nothing more than that of living a normal life free from undue pressures, problems and tensions.
If we want to live a good and happy life then we need to get rid of the negativity within us which makes us unhappy. Negative approach always complicates the problems and increases unhappiness. Most of us do the fatal mistake of looking outwards for happiness rather than looking inwards. Be positive, be strong, be bold and be courageous you are sure to find the feeling of happiness within you. Even if we are having a bad day, think of some good things that may come our way, either later that day, tomorrow, next week, or next moment. When everything seems to be beyond our control, it’s almost too easy for us to slip into the grasp of negativity and unhappiness. To avoid sadness we must strive to abolish this sort of thinking through the power of thinking positively and generate the feeling of happiness within us.
The art of sweet living is not a complicated kind of art difficult to learn rather a simple art of happy living feeling well, eating well, and thinking well. What we need to do is just to tune up our mind to enjoy every moment of life and let the sweet happiness follow us. This is something that needs to be looked into thoroughly. We need to focus on the positive aspects of lives, rather than on the negative setbacks and enjoy every moment of life happily and merrily. Enjoy your life with cheerful talks. Be happy and cheerful.
We must remember that happy living is the reward of sweet and positive thinking. We ought to remember, only the positive thinking can bring happiness in our lives. If we cannot think positively, you cannot live happily. Be our own teacher or adviser we ought to look everything with a positive angle. Let us find something good even in most critical moments of our life and let us make positive thinking the basis of our happy living.
It’s a matter of thought that fools worry about the circumstances on which they have no control. The wise live on positive good and happy thoughts. A sound and positive happiness is all around. It’s not far away from us. If we do not want to live happy, it’s up to us. It’s our own choice. We must not blame others, nor should we blame our fate or external circumstances. Another thing is that feeling confident affects the way we perceive our situations and how we decide to manage them. Think that by being more optimistic we alter our approaches to situations and take on them in a healthier manner; we think of alternatives and act according to better outcomes. All our efforts lead us to good and happy living. If we think we are positive and happy, it will be positive. It does not say to stick our heads in the soil; rather it says to think positive.
Interestingly it does not say feel positive it says think positive and that is the real meaning to remain happy. Positive thinking, good and happy thoughts make us to live happily. Happiness does not come alone, it adds our minds body and soul to remain in constant touch with each other. We have to remove negative thoughts and create and atmosphere to be happy in our lives. There are many fear factors that are reasoning us to be unhappy and the main reason being that our heart and our feelings which are more susceptible to fear and worry then the mind. We do the worrying in our minds but it is our emotions that make us more worried not our brains. When the heart senses the possibility of loss it can start panicking and then uses the mind to worry and many times tries to manipulate the brain in dealing with the fear.
The heart desires something and gets excited about it and then it manipulates the mind to assure that it will get it. Although the brain can control the emotions and knowledge can proceed all. However when it comes to response time the brain is slower than the emotions. That is which explains why we say or do things and then regret them. It would be very hard to tell someone who is worried to feel happy. But if you tell him to think positive that is something even a worried person can do.
We need to use our mind to think to be happy and positive. Our objective in life should be to train ourselves to wait for the brain to show up before we say or do anything. Fear usually comes from the emotions and thinking positive is something the brain is capable of doing, making happy living as the key to success.Just think of sweet and happy living. This simple task can be done by thinking positive as it brings positive results in its wake; when you react in a positive way to a negative situation you usually get positive in return and the feeling of happiness is born in you. Positive mental attitude is effective in many ways.
There are limits to the effectiveness of positive and happy thinking. Do we try to assume that the persons who are not treating us the way we should be treated are themselves in pain and needs our love and advice to be happy in life and lead a good, sweet and happy life? It is therefore a must for us to learn and understand r that we need to be positive first and we must think to be happy in the interest of our sweet and happy living.
PREFACE
An established author, writer and consultant Baldev Bhatia shares with millions of curious readers the real knowledge of happiness by letting them know more about themselves in detail through their in born qualities along with the help of the positive living qualities possessed by them and to ward off the negativity in them and also get to know the ways as how to live happily. The worries adopted by them, the negative forces influencing them, need to be discarded for a sweet and happy living. A thought of penning down the wonders of this interesting and mystic manuscript of happy and sweet living with the methods to ward off the negativity influencing the masses has lured the author cum astrologer to bring to the millions of readers the real knowledge of sweet and happy living by letting them know more about themselves in detail with the help of astrological science.
With the guidance of this manuscript the reader will tend to know more about themselves through their zodiac signs, their habits, characteristics; appearances; their personality; profession, career; business, finances, their match with other zodiac signs; romance, marriage, Weakness their health and disease and finally the negative forces possessed by them and to ward of this negativity factor charming them to become more powerful so that they can lead a sweet, good and happy life. This Microscopy of Good and Happy Living is based on the practical experience of the author who has meet several thousand people having negativity in their personal lives and those leading a miserable life totally being depressed and dejected who have bitterly failed to lead a good and happy life.
The main purpose of writing this manuscript is to impart the basic knowledge of how to become bold, strong, courageous, and how to throw away the negativity in them. This manuscript reveals a whole lot of information when one is in search for the truth of happy living. The author also shares his experience with his readers through his published books “Microscopy of Astrology”, Microscopy of Numerology”, Microscopy of Remedies, Microscopy of Transiting Planets five volumes and also guides his readers to achieve their personal goals with ease and assist them to overcome all the problems, crises, and the unforeseen negatives forces, in their lives by parting with depression, dejection disappointment and by adopting the beautiful ways of enjoying a sweet good and happy living.
This book goes to reveal, ascertaining the real facts of life and the destiny as to what is stored for each and every reader in his or her future. Various chapters have been covered and maximum emphasis have been paid to cover the subjects pertaining to the significance of happiness by reading different charts; different zodiac signs, planets and their placements in different houses and signs; affliction of planets with the interpretation of the major period and the meaning of the birth sign. Author and Astrologer Baldev Bhatia have put his entire life experience in promoting positivity and happiness among his clients through this mystic science of Astrology. He has done so in order to serve millions of curious readers with a good intension of imparting them the basic knowledge of how to become a happy person in life.
The author-cum astrologer has been associated with general public for the past forty five years and has been practicing phycology and pubic healing. His intension is also to guide the readers to achieve their personal goals with ease and would assist them to overcome all the problems, crises, speed breakers and the unforeseen negatives forces, in their lives and always to ward of the dejection negativity in their lives and to lead a happy life.
The Author’s main object and message, through this manuscript to his readers is to spread, peace, love happiness to the entire world and tries to guide his readers to ward off unhappiness sadness and hatred among them. He has done his best to reveal to his readers to attain positivity in way or manner irrespective of all the hardships and to attain a path of glory by getting away from their weakness of negative thinking and discarding forever the negative attitude, to be bold to be strong and e courageous, through which they can lead a sweet good happy and prosperous life.
This book also intends to guide the readers to achieve their personal goals with ease that would assist them to overcome all the problems, difficulties crises, in their lives, as not to get worried or disheartened if the influence of the transiting planets is weak, guesting depressing, unfavorable and disappointing. This books goes to emphasis as how to lead a sweet good and happy life eve if the influence of the MahaDasha is good, it brings good or positive changes or events in life. But if the influence is unfavorable it gives undesired results.
One needs to understand that no matter what aspect a transiting planet makes to an individual he needs to hold on his nerves to be bold to be strong and to be positive in life whatever be the circumstances governing his future and the positive energy that is already stored in him.The chapters in the book are very useful, purposeful, and a pin point to the service of mankind. He wishes success for all his readers. The author would definitely like to express his sincere thanks to Ms. Alpa Shah Director, Travel Company of UK, for helping and encouraging him to pen down this book in the interest of depressed and dejected and the so called unhappy persons of this universe. The author is also grateful and thankful to the publishers for publishing this Book.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Astrology has stood the test of times ever since it revealed the mystery and the mastery of the ancient wisdom of forecasting the influence of the stars on human bodies. The author Baldev Bhatia a renowned and world famous astrologer has penned several simple books on astrology-this mysterious subject that reveals the true perception of knowing oneself through the art of prediction. Professionally the author has put his entire life experience in promoting Astrology in various fields with a view to serve the millions of curious readers of this mystic science and with the intension of imparting them the real knowledge of astrology through various marvelous scriptures. The Astrologer has been associated with astrology for the past forty five years and has been practicing astrology in various forms.
The Author-cum Astrologer has been in touch with general public and has been practicing phycology and pubic healing. His intension is to guide his readers to achieve their personal goals with ease that would assist them to overcome all the problems, crises, speed breakers and the unforeseen negatives forces, in their lives so as not to get disheartened or depressed in their lives and finally lead a happy life and peaceful and a sweet life. The author also shares with millions of curious readers the ‘real knowledge’ by letting them know more about themselves in detail and also about their in born positive qualities, possessed by them and guides them to ward off the negativity in them, by getting to know as how to lead an happy and powerful life.. without caring for the worries troubling them, the negative forces influencing them, which needs to be discarded forever, for a sweet and happy living if the influence of the transiting planets.
The main object of writing this manuscript is to impart the basic knowledge of how to become positive, bold, strong, courageous, and how to throw away the negative forces and become a happy person in life. The author also shares the valuable experience of his life with his readers through this valuable and helpful book.
His published books “Microscopy of Astrology”, Microscopy of Numerology”, Microscopy of Remedies, Microscopy of Happy Living Microscopy of Positive Living and Microscopy of Positive Thinking also guide his readers to achieve their personal goals with ease and assists them to overcome all the problems, in their lives gracefully which guides them to lead a happy sweet and prosperous life. His readers have gained good experience going through his useful and purposeful books.
His books have made his readers to feel secure, Sound and have also encouraged them to face their destiny with immense strength and have also given them the power to face the challenges of this universe with utter confidence zeal and power and are leading a happy life. The author Baldev Bhatia leads way to happiness, success, positivity and advices his people suffering from depression and negativity in their personal lives to wake up and lead a positive and to be happy. After meeting hundreds and hundreds of depressed dejected disappointed and unhappy people from all over the world and people from all walks of life and he being a highly experienced astrologer and consultant in astrology and numerology felt it necessary to write books on Happiness, Love, and on the art of sweet living.
His books have also revealed to his readers to attain happiness in their lives so that they could easily achieve their path of glory and also be a brave strong and courageous human being. His books have given gracefully accepted by the people worldwide. His books have helped the masses to achieve and lead a life full of positivity, boldness, courage happiness and have generated confidence in depressed and dejected people. His books have helped his clients and readers to lead a good, a sweet and happy life.
His books have been very different as they guide and help the readers to strengthen their will power and confidence which the readers have lost in today’s world. In order to encourage his readers and to help them, in all walks of life the esteem author decided to manuscript the following books in the interest and happiness of the universal world.
CHAPTER 1
WHY NEGATIVE THOUGHTS
Negative thought which are provoking our mind, about the uncertainties and the negativities, as to what will happen tomorrow creates unnecessary worries and worries are repetitive thoughts associated with feelings of anxiety in anticipation of some negative future event which may end in a failure. Whether the worries are about financial crisis, family problems, work, health or any topic of concern, the anxious feelings and negative thoughts produced are always distinctly unpleasant.
Annalise positive thinking and stop worry over petty matters. Worrying will carry tomorrow's load with today's strength. Worry will not empty tomorrow of its sorrows, but it tends to empty today of its power and strength. Worries make you to move into tomorrow ahead of time. Half the worry in the world is caused by people trying to make decisions before they have sufficient knowledge on which to base a decision. Their negative thoughts pressurize them to be away from the positivity in their lives as they fail and do not analysis on positive
Generate Positive Thinking
Why worry about the future. Just imagine as to what if we just acted like everything was easy and there was nothing very serious about it to come in future. Worry often gives a small thing a big shadow and its surrounding do frightened with more scary things. Why worry about tomorrow; concentrate on today happening as for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has its own worries and troubles. Always think positive. If there is not any solution to the some problem then do not waste time worrying about it. And if there is a solution to the problem then why waste time worrying about it. Act fast be positive generate positive thinking worries will automatically vanish in the air. But if you tend to worry they will never rob tomorrow of its sorrows, but will only deny today of its meaning happiness and joys.
Negative thoughts only produce worries and worrying is actually a form of superstition and creates false images in our mind and that is the main reason and cause which makes and leads us to this point of imagination. A human being can survive almost anything, as long as he or she sees the end in sight and starts analyzing his positive thoughts.We must not forgot that ff something bad or good is to happen it is sure to happen, whether we worry or not. Let us put our energy into today and stop worrying about the future and past. We should not foresee trouble, or worry about what may never happen as past is dead and gone forever and future is uncertain and yet to come. Positive Thinking will ward off everything and bring happiness in our lives. The basic facts we should know about worry. The basic techniques to analyze worry and how to break the worry habit before it breaks us. These are the simple ways where we can concentrate and get rid of worries prevailing in our thoughts.
Think Positive and Pray- Why Worry?
Annalise positive thinking by annualizing worry you get to see and get the reasons and facts of worry. To avoid reoccurrence of worries, concentrate on prayers as prayers are the best source of remedies of the prevailing worries. Think Positive and Pray. The more you pray, the less you'll panic. The more you worship, the less you worry.There is nothing that wastes the body like worry, and anyone who has any faith in God should need not to worry about anything whatsoever is to happen in future. Positive thinking is the creation of good imagination. We must first study and after carefully weighing all the facts than only come to a powerful decision. Simply making castles in the air won’t solve our problems but add more to our vows. Anxiety and worry can go hand in hand. When anxiety grabs the mind, it is self-perpetuating. Your mind gets clogged with numerous with buts and ifs. Do not worry about your life. Worries are repetitive thoughts associated with feelings of anxiety in anticipation of some negative future event.
Yet anxious feelings and the worries that lead to them can prove helpful. It becomes a difficult problem if you are constantly anxious to know as to the happening of the future. It will become a hindrance to your everyday life, rather than motivate you to some good and better things. Worrisome thoughts reproduce faster so one of the most powerful ways to stop the spiral of worry is simply to disclose the worry to a friend. What you eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear will add to negativity may discard positive thinking.
Happiness comes with Positive Thinking.
If you know that the circumstance is beyond your control or power change than revise it to your liking. Just try to put a stop-less order on your worries. Don't permit little things which become insects of life to ruin your happiness. Co-operate with the inevitable. Decide just how much anxiety a thing may be worth and refuse to give in anymore. All the happiness is not given in one go it comes slowly and slowly with positive thinking. Have worry under your control. If your worries center around, pay special attention to remain positive and be happy. Keep yourself happy, treat your worried thoughts as valuable signals. How to keep from worrying about criticism?. Simply unjust criticism and think positively and do often discard a bad compliment. It often means that you have aroused jealousy and envy. Let's keep a record of the fool things we have done and stop criticizing ourselves.
Cause of Worry is Negative Thinking- Think Positive
The utmost cause of worry is our negative thinking as it leads us to the state of depression. Worries are there to motivate us and not a mere source of information-gathering and problems. Dejection and Depression is the inability to construct a future. Depression is inertia. That's the thing about depression: But depression is so insidious, and it compounds daily, that it's impossible to ever see the end. Depressed people think they know themselves, but maybe they only know depression. There are no hopeless than this to get depressed. They never even attempt to think positive.
Times will change for the better-Think Positive
Our negative thinking and attitude towards suffering and depression becomes very important because it can affect how we cope with suffering when it arises. Depression is nourished by a lifetime of un-grieved and unforgiven causes. Never worry about your heart till it stops beating. How can you deal with anxiety? You might try what when you did. A person worried so much that he decided to hire someone to do his worrying for him. Times will change for the better when you change. Worry is a misuse of the imagination. Worry is most often a prideful way of thinking that you have more control over life and its circumstances than you actually do. Positive Thinking leads your way to good and happiness.
An art of Good and Happy Living. Neglect worries keep yourself happy, treat your worried thoughts as valuable signals. These are the fundamental facts you should be familiar about worries. A huge factor to stay happy is to cater your worries around, an important relationship in your life and pay special attention sustaining positive relationships. Worries are there to motivate information gathering and problem-solving. Make your mind firm and do come to a positive decision as come what we will not allow the worries to entire our mind and soul.
Once a decision is carefully reached we should get busy carrying out our decisions and should not bother about all the anxieties that are about to come. When we, or any of our colleagues or associates, are about to worry about a problem, we must write it out and think positively of the questions: Instead of worrying about what people say of you, why not spend time trying to accomplish something they will admire. What if we just acted like everything was easy?
How would your life be different if you stopped worrying about things we can’t control and started focusing on the things we can? Let today be the day. You free yourself from fruitless worry, seize the day and take effective action on things you can change. We would change ourselves for the betterment if we start thinking in positive terms. Positive thinking is what is required of us and simply worrying about the future things or as to what will happen in the next moment will certainly deprive us of good and happy living that we are about gather or get in the next hour.
CHAPTER 2
NEGATIVITY WILL BRING UNHAPPINESS
The attitude of positive or happy living speaks a lot about a person.
It denotes about changing negative attitudes and making positive thinking a positive a good habit. Thinking positively and a positive attitude help us to appreciate and value ourselves, our potential and all that we have. It ensures that we do not take our abilities for granted. It makes us look at ourselves as special people with a special set of abilities and potential. It banishes the feelings of inadequacy and insecurity that arises from unfair comparisons with others. It helps us to appreciate people for who they are and not magnify what they are not and their little flaws. It drives away prejudice and makes us approach life with an open mind. It predisposes us to react to the daily events of life in a positive manner and help us to look at the brighter side of life. Make us optimistic.
It gives hope and helps us look forward to life with anticipation making our lives happier and happier day be day. We need to know that positive thinking takes the focus away from what we don’t have, to appreciating and making good use of what we have. It is closely connected to our emotional wellbeing and happiness. We feel loved and at peace with ourselves for a major part of our lives when we make this attitude ours. This adds and helps us to get rid of greed, amenity, bitterness, jealousy, and promotes a healthy and nurturing attitude towards others, which in turn gets reciprocated and we feel the sense of healthy living.On the face of it we ought to know that a positive and good living is an attitude that makes you feel good about who you are, what you do, and
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Texte: Baldev Bhatia
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Tag der Veröffentlichung: 22.12.2015
ISBN: 978-3-7396-2919-3
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It’s a matter of thought that fools worry about the circumstances on which they have no control. The wise live on positive good and happy thoughts. A sound and positive happiness is all around. It’s not far away from us. If we do not want to live happy, it’s up to us. It’s our own choice. We must not blame others, nor should we blame our fate or external circumstances. Another thing is that feeling confident affects the way we perceive our situations and how we decide to manage them. Think that by being more optimistic we alter our approaches to situations and take on them in a healthier manner; we think of alternatives and act according to better outcomes.