The Development of the Social Self

 

 

The Development of the Social Self

 

 

By : Haitham Al Fiqi

All rights reserved@ Haitham Al Fiqi

 

 

Note

 

• This eBook is a guide and serves as an initial guide. , it is advisable to additionally seek professional advice or to consult a doctor / psychologist.

 

• This e-book is a guide and serves as a primer. Please also seek professional advice.

 

About the eBook

 

• There is no doubt that the development of the social self of individuals generally affects society and makes it exemplary and completely free of all forms of violence.

• Understanding the standards of love, emotions, personality development, self-education, sharing hopes and dreams, and stress management helps a person develop socially, personally, and professionally.

• This book serves as a practical guide to solving some practical problems that may hinder a person socially during his social self-development and ways to solve those problems smoothly.

• The Author, a legal researcher in social psychology, believes that developing the social self would influence the behavior of individuals in society for the better and From this standpoint, he wrote this book .

 

 

 

 

 

Contents

A Loving Relationship by Development of the Self and Social Environment

Barriers in Development of the Social Self Environment

Big Steps in Development of Social Self

Challenging Social Self Environment

Check You in Development of the Social Self Environment

Communicating in Development of the Social Self Environment

Development of Social Self in a Stress Free Environment

Development of Social Self-Environment Jealousy

Development of the Social Self Environment in Unleashing YOU

Development of the Social SelfEnvironment The Personality Development

Emotions in Social Self Development Environment

Fear in Development of the Social Self Environment

Finding Love in Relationships in Development of Self and Social Environment

Healthy Development in the Social Self Environment

Human Behavior in Development of the Self and Social Environment

Learning to Live and Love in the Development of Self and Social Environment

Life in the Development of the Social Self Environment

Living Sporty in Development of Social Self Environment

Love in Development of the Social Self Environment

Pets in Development of the Social Self Environment

Positive Development of the Social Self Environment

Process in Development of Social Self Environment

Relaxation in The Development of the Social Self Environment

Roses In Social Development of Self

Self in Social Environment Development

Self Learning for Social Self Environment Development

Share Your Hopes and Dreams through Development of the Social Self Environment

Social Self Development in Environment Forgiveness

Spirits in Development of Social Self Environment

Stress Management in Development of Social Self Environment

The Development of Social Self and Environment

The Development of the Social Self Environment First Impression is not always the last one

The Development of the Social Self Environment Going Online

The Development of the Social Self Environment in the Workplace

The Development of the Social Self Environment Keeping Friends

The Development of the Social Self Environment learning

The Development of the Social Self Environment The intrapersonal relationship

The Development of the Social Self Environment The Joys of Pet Ownership

The Development of the Social Self Environment Working Out Differences with Officemates

The Development of the Social Self Making Friends

The Development of the Social Self Outside School Environment

The Development of the Social Self Socialization

The Development of the Social Self The Environmental Contribution

The Development of the Social Self

The Way to Success Lies within you in Development of the Social Self Environment

The Y in Development of Social Self Environment

Underestimations in Development of Social Self

Environment Learning

Understanding Rapport in The Development of Social Self and Environment

Union of the Divine Self in Development of Social and Self Environment

UNVEILING THE INNER SELF in Development of the Social and Self Environment

 

A Loving Relationship by Development of the Self and Social Environment

 

What happened? You may answer that you don’t know. This is often the reply you hear in many relationships. Humans are such a part of so many relationships; yet there is so little time spends on considering the outcome of what makes a relationship work.

 

Everyday we face people that will affect our well being. This could be your husband or wife; parents or children; sons or daughters. Humans treat these relationships with a carefree sense of casualness. People ignore the fact that these people have an affect on your life. They can bring you joy, laughter, despair, or tears. These same figures are also found in working with neighbors, coworkers and your friends. Everyone is so sure that his or her relationship will work out. Nothing could be further than the truth.

 

Most people have never felt the desire to examine or explore what they are feeling. It is essential that this be done. Your relationship influences your mental health and the society that your friends, family and lovers belong too.

 

Often when in a relationship, you may be asked, “ Are you happy in this relationship?” The common answer often heard is, “I guess so.” It is very sad that an unrehearsed “yes” can’t be given. Many answers might be given when asked that question. It makes you wonder if they would jump off a boat, knowing they couldn’t swim. Even now there are people in relationships that aren’t happy. It’s just an unrewarding relationship that should be otherwise.

 

People should stop and think in order to form a nourished relationship it requires interactive behavior with positive and long lasting meaning. It is often found very difficult to put into words, the thoughts one may experience in a relationship. In the same frame of speaking, it is interesting how easy humans put off the challenging concepts of love in a relationship that requires no serious thought.

 

A loving relationship should be a choice in partnership. This is true even if there is imperfection in the relationship.

 

Individuals should trust one another and become secure that no one else won’t take advantage of them.

 

Being open and honest is desired in a loving relationship. Knowing that no matter the situation, you will always be there for the other.

 

Receiving your partner as a whole and being able to receive the same acceptance is required in a healthy relationship.

 

One should put away the selfishness and open the lines of communication to where the good is found and maximized and the bad is minimized for both partners.

 

 

 

A loving relationship is one build on trust and acceptance. This allows for warm and tender feelings of contentment. Support and strength can be drawn from this relationship.

 

No one should consider a healthy relationship by the time they are together, only by the quality of caring. This is where one can explore their fears and joys without a fear of rejection or condemnation. In other words you can relax and be comfortable and gain strength to encounter any battle headed your way.

 

 

It is very obvious that a loving relationship is defined in your mind and agreed upon as individuals before entering into the relationship. Commitment and trust may be all that one desires for a relationship to form. It is always essential to think of what it means before you ask someone to come into your life.

 

One should always remember that a loving relationship is one that both parties feel loved and accepted. They should be able to share dreams, failures, successes, and their innermost feelings together. A relationship is a give and take interaction that allows room for nurture and growth. Let your relationship be one that you can celebrate and know another’s soul and heart.

Barriers in Development of the Social Self Environment

 

Human weaknesses are a hindrance in the growth of an organism. To overcome these weaknesses, is extremely essential to ensure self-development. These weaknesses can be prevailed over by knowing oneself, by cleaning oneself of the negative thoughts, rational development and by ensuring bodily fitness of an organism. A person should acquaint with oneself, for doing so a personage should have the ability to acknowledge the criticism in a healthy manner.

 

If a person can admit to the criticism, it will play a significant role in his self-grooming. It will help in knowing your weaknesses, which is extremely essential for the development of a self. For self-development, it is necessary to spend considerable amount of time, to ponder on what kind of a person you are. This will aid you to a large extent in your dealings with other people and his augmentation. It is essential for an entity to enhance your strengths and to condense your weaknesses. It is only the positive energy that will help you to augment your overall persona. However, over looking the negative attributes can make them higher up. So, it becomes essential to relate to you unconstructive aspects and prevail over them.

 

Confidence and faith in oneself is also important for the enlistment of an organism. However confidence-lacking humility can be interpreted as ignorance. So, an individual who shows himself as stronger and confident should be more considerate and humane in their approach. If a person lacks the bodily fitness, he will go through mental disturbances. The body that is unfit has various chemicals in the blood stream that will affect him mentally. The bodily fitness will ensure a person to be healthy mentally. Physical and the mental fitness go hand in hand for the self-enhancement of an individual.

 

The fitness of the body and optimistic thinking is at the core of the development of the self. There are various ways to promote and enhance the development of self, which comprises of healthy and nutritious diet, meditation, and yoga in the midst of the several others. Eating right and healthy requires a proper and an appropriate planning. Unhealthy meals result in havoc and disorder, as it disrupts the health and the metabolism of the body.

 

Meditation is also crucial as it helps in relaxing mind and body, for the complete development. It helps a personage to increase its will power and holds the senses together. It is a natural way of healing and helps to regain the tranquility and serenity of mind. It promotes the development of a self as it eradicates all the negative energy from the body, and instills constructive and positive energy in an organism.

 

Yoga, also has gained tremendous popularity over the years, as it helps an entity to raise oneself from the worldly measures. It aids to focus on the cleanliness of self and mind. Therefore, it helps to strengthen the control over oneself. It helps to energize the mind and work in coordination with the body.

It helps an entity to maintain the balance of mind and soul. Yoga is a key aid to overcome stress, which has increasingly become a modern day syndrome due to cutthroat competition. However, by changing the lifestyle, and incorporating various measures, one can easily triumph over it. As an optimistic mind, helps in the prosperity and the enhancement of organism. A constructive mind will aid an entity to anticipate joy, love, care and generosity, contradictory to pessimistic mind which promotes depressing and gloomy actions, as a person’s actions and traits, determine the course of his path and success.

Big Steps in Development of Social Self

 

Environment Development

 

Due to globalization, the lives of people have become monotonous. There is no family and social life left. People don’t even have time for themselves. With this, they have become frustrated with their lives and are always in search of some ways that would lead them for the development of the self. To attain self development in true sense, it is important to work on some of the areas, which are self-control, self-awareness, self-esteem and self-identity.

 

If you don’t even know yourself completely, how can you challenge others if they raise a finger on your identity or character? To know one’s strengths and weaknesses is very crucial. When you come to know about your shortcomings, you can easily face anyone without any fear. You can maintain a diary in which you can note down the areas where you need to improve. In addition, one of the safest methods for development of the self is not to get trapped easily by influential people. It is observed that the famous celebrities often delight young people. This hampers their development and leaves the person in the state of ignorance.

 

Very often listening to everyone around which acts as an obstacle in the path of rational thinking frustrates us. When you really want to go with self development process, you should start listening to your inner voice. This helps a lot in the growth of a person’s self and he or she starts having faith in them. One should never run away from the vices. Instead, you should bring out your virtues so that you become as a role model for others.

 

In today’s world, people are becoming selfish. They act as if they are the well wishers but, in actual life, they misguide even their closest friends and loved ones. So, it is advisable that one should always follow his or her insight so that development of the self is made possible in easier ways. One of the best options to listen and follow to your inner voice is to adopt the method of meditation. By doing this, you will be able to shed off the notions that are caused due to external factors and your inner voice will be heard properly.

 

Positive thinking and practical understanding are very vital for the growth. If your mind is not filled with pure thoughts, you will always remain frustrated and quarrelsome. This will not aid as having a pessimistic outlook never helps anyone. Sometimes while listening to your inner voice, self-doubt arises. Make sure that this self-doubt never comes in your way as it is a negative force that draws you away from your own self. Moreover, the development of the mind is also important for the overall development of the self. For example, if some people have the habit of taking alcohol or tobacco, wants the assistance and help of the spiritual learning or of God. By doing this, they become totally engrossed in the beliefs of spiritual acts and starts trusting the God. These notions act as an obstacle in the journey to attain self development. Therefore, people should try to quit their bad habits on their own as this will bring out their willpower and strength to give up the evil practices.

 

In addition, thought awareness and rational thinking are very important to come out as a perfect human being. Just as the butterfly manages hard to come out of the shell in which it is born, similarly, people should help themselves on his or her own for self development. Therefore, to live for sport and life, one needs to work out on one’s own self and its development.

Challenging Social Self Environment

 

Development Support

 

It is amazing how easily humans find it to put off the challenging concepts of relationships and love. This has just become a phenomenon that will take care of them with no serious thought. They should aware of the fact that a loving relationship can nourish human behavior to be positive and long lasting and give their lives a more fundamental meaning.

 

Challenge yourself to a loving relationship in which you can be yourself, even your loved one. Be able to laugh; cry; love life; love yourself and in return be loved back. This relationship would be based upon freedom and would never grow into a jealous heart. You can totally be yourself, be accepted and understood; Trusted and respected as a valuable human being. This is a challenging effort to provide a caring and secure environment so that one can share all their fears and hopes and be encouraged to grow and learn.

 

Enjoy the challenge of a loving relationship that offers one comfort in the present of another. Through words or body language you share mutual trust; honesty; devotion; and that special thrill of being together. Accept the other person into your relationship as being whole and you will receive the same acceptance.

 

The challenge of the social self will let you see that in a loving relationship you’re beloved one as being unique; forever becoming and a beautiful individual. This will allow you and your loved one to find that special “I” , which allows the blending of yourselves without the fear of loss of self.

 

A loving relationship will challenge you to an active change into a bonding reciprocal , which encourages and almost demands the qualities necessary to show your lover you can be all he or she wants you to be and in return be they will be able to do the same.

 

There should be no doubt that you want a strong and more creative way of loving each other. This is obvious a challenge to accomplish and exert all the necessary effort involved. This challenge will not be an easy one, but it will help if you are to continue in knowing yourself.

 

Don’t find yourself with so much and still suffer from one of the most dangerous states of poverty; the inability to express your love with an open and honest affection and without fear. It takes very little to open your arms up to another. This is one of the most important challenges you must take.

 

Take a challenge together in your loving relationship. This would allow both parties to feel loved and accepted that you can share all of your inner most feelings; dreams; and your successes. This is a give and take challenge. Both parties will find this as an equal importance to the growth of your relationship.

 

Enjoy the trust and acceptance of each other. You will find that it creates a warm loving sense of security and contentment. Both parties involved will find unlimited support and strength upon they can always draw from.

 

With each challenge a relationship will grow with understanding and a loving acceptance to each other’s differences, which will encourage each party involved to reach out and share as much beauty and love as there is possible to find.

 

It is very obvious that each challenge is rather exciting in a relationship. This should remain defined in your mind and agreed upon by each individual involved in the relationship. Each of you will find that it requires more trust; commitment; and total honesty. For some it may mean a less restrictive involvement. You should always think of the constellation of all the possibilities before you ever tell another to, “Come into your life.”

Check You in Development of the Social Self Environment

 

-Watch Who You Blame

 

You are always responsible for yourself. Never should you look for reasons to blame outside of one self. There are people that are forever blaming the outsider for their feelings and actions. Very seldom will you hear one ask, “Why does one have to act or react that way?” Only when you are able to assume full responsibility for whom and what you are will you be able to experience true happiness and freedom. As

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Verlag: BookRix GmbH & Co. KG

Tag der Veröffentlichung: 03.12.2023
ISBN: 978-3-7554-6264-4

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• There is no doubt that the development of the social self of individuals generally affects society and makes it exemplary and completely free of all forms of violence. • Understanding the standards of love, emotions, personality development, self-education, sharing hopes and dreams, and stress management helps a person develop socially, personally, and professionally. • This book serves as a practical guide to solving some practical problems that may hinder a person socially during his social self-development and ways to solve those problems smoothly. • The Author, a legal researcher in social psychology, believes that developing the social self would influence the behavior of individuals in society for the better and From this standpoint, he wrote this book .